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Benefits of Having a Family Astrologer

      Family is the first and basic unit of human society. We all belong to a family and our decisions during  active life are mostly centered around family. During any event of joy or sorrow, we take refuge of our family only. We keep many secrets within our family only.Most of us live and willing to die for our family .

      While we solve many of our  personal and family problems by interacting  within  the family, there are many issues in our modern day living , which cannot be solved within  family because of lack of necessary expertise.

   There comes the need of having an extended family. Our friends usually make up for this requirement. But still , there is need of expert advice in many critical issues, like medical, legal, psychiatric, career or spiritual issues.

  Most of us remain oblivious of the need of such experts till we face an emergency in these area.

  However, during critical periods, we have very little time to find out a good doctor, lawyer, teacher or consultant and we have to accept any xyz person to deal with such moments of crisis.

  Most of the time , it will turn out that the advice given by such randomly picked expert, not only aggravated the issue but resulted in the loss of money or life also.

  Therefore , only solution lies  in having a genuine expert as member of our extended family , before crisis happens.

  British people introduced the concept of family doctor for this reason only. A family doctor knows every family member's medical history, the lifestyle and way of thinking. This knowledge comes to doctor from repeated interactions with family members over a period of time.

  Therefore, a family doctor is always in a position to advise correctly even at  short notice, while just any  randomly picked doctor will not have the necessary past data of patient and he has to go by intelligent guesses and trial & error method only.

   Family doctor can give preventive advice also. The trust of family on such doctor also adds the recovery of patient fast. Having a family doctor saves a lot of time, efforts and unnecessary stress of finding a doctor during a crisis. Fees wise also , such doctor is economical.

    Just as for medical emergency, we have a family doctor, we may have a family lawyer, investment-cum-tax consultant (CA) also.

  Having such permanent consultants relieves us from potential losses and worries and we can depend upon their expertise and experience. They also add to our general awareness about health,law or taxes etc because of regular interaction with them. We gain much more from such permanent family consultants and they join us in our family functions  and crisis also.

   Chances of a foul or cursory advices are rare in such cases. Still we always have a choice of  taking a second opinion from other experts also.


  We all know that we are a body-mind set up , so we have both needs simultaneously. So far, we discussed the consultants , who helped us at physical level by solving our body or money related issues. But human beings have a strong mental awareness level.

   So, we frequently need more help from mental consultants . Generally this role is played by elders, teachers, peers etc. In Indian traditions, we used to have a family guru , called KULGURU, who did all these roles together.

   With the disintegration of joint families, this institution also disappeared and many new westernised consultants like psychologists, psychiatrists, career and educational consultants, psychic healers, astrologers and many Babaji have come up.

  Problem with spiritual consultants is that their qualifications are not standardised like in medical or law discipline. So any Tom, Dick and Harry can market himself as bigshot expert of spirituality overnight by using TV / internet and cheat millions from  public.

    So, question arises how to find out a true spiritual consultant ?

Remember  !   Vashistha was Kulguru to Dashrath  &  Ram and Chanakya to Chandragupt .

   If we analyse the qualities of  such Kulgurus, we find that they were expert in solving tricky problems, detached from monetary benefits, lived a simple uncomplicated life with their families out of city , while having strong faith in God.  All of these were learned persons having compulsory knowledge of scriptures, Ayurveda , Jyotish and politics etc .

 They had potential to become Kings themselves but they preferred to be King-makers ! They never fell for trap of Power and that was their  greatest Power and asset.

  Since our mental needs have not changed since time of Rama and Chandragupta, so we need similar Gurus even today.So, if you encounter any modern Babaji or Guruji , apply following checklist :

  •  His awareness and exposure to modern life and its contemporary issues.

  •  His education : modern & ancient i.e. use of English and other modern languages,computers etc alongwith   Jyotish, Puranas ,Ayurved etc .

  •  How he solved his own problems of profession , money and family.

  •  His approach to money , publicity and political power.

  •  His past  &  future ambition in life.

       While above checklist is handy to check any bogus Guru, there is one very good touchstone for testing a Guru . You just stay with the person without talking for about an hour and if you feel calm and peaceful, then he can give you peace , the prime attribute of a Guru. If it is not possible to be near him , talking on phone will also give you some peace immediately.

      Only that  person who is at peace with himself , can deliver peace to others also. A new born child has no issues with this world and so he is at peace with himself. Anybody who takes such baby in his lap, also feels similar peace and happiness as long as he is with the child.

For such Guru, money hoarding is never the goal.

     Deep knowledge of astrology leads to detachment from worldly things and great internal peace in the person. Remember that astrology was invented for search of God , not for money. All famous Kulgurus and Gurus in ancient India had all these attributes and they were respected for these features only.

    While searching a Guru like Vashistha in modern cities will be foolish, still , there are some persons who fulfill some of the attributes. In modern days, if you could get a good astrologer, with sound concepts of astrology with spiritual interpretations, that is more than enough.

Reason is that without astrology, spirituality cannot be rocksolid. So, if your  Guru is not knowing astrology, he himself cannot get the hint of his future, which is a necessary attribute  to be a visionary for others. To lead a blind , one must have eyes.

Initially , test the astrologer for his predictions over a time and not one sundry prediction to understand him. Also, ask for astrological explanation for the prediction in writing. Get it checked by another astrologer and see whether other astrologers agree with that logic .

Once you find an expert and honest astrologer, it is important that you make him your family astrologer. If the astrologer has Kundli of all your family members, it become easier to predict and confirm the interlinked destiny in a family.

Astrology is a complex science and a person is affected by the destiny of the co-living person, whosoever he is. A minister's driver sitting close to minister in his official car shares the destiny of minister by becoming important and getting good treatment from others and at the same time,  becomes himself vulnerable also  to any  attack on minister .

Thus , destiny works both ways and a group reading is better than individual reading of a horoscope.

As per astrology the geometry of life changes with addition or deletion of family members. So, alone you are a point, after marriage ,there are two points making it a line and after one child, it is a triangle and so on.Therefore, destiny compulsorily takes a change for better or worse , when a living entity ( even animals also) joins or separates from you. A family astrologer can keep a track of all this and find the missing link.


    Many times , a right solution or idea for your problem may come to astrologer  after some days. In case of family astrologer , it will be communicated immediately to you. But in case of casual consultation with any random astrologer , it is quite possible that you may not get correct solution immediately and later on astrologer will not call you.


Astrologically also , the right solution comes at appropriate astrological moment. So, you must have a continuing relationship with astrologer . That is the greatest reason behind keeping a family astrologer , just as kings kept a battery of Raj Jyotishis all their life.

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